I'm gonna go visit my friend in a couple of weeks and I want to tell her I'm a lesbian I already came out to her as bi but I want to explain to her why I came out as bi and that I was confused at the time so she can understand . Should I or should I wait a little while .. You see I'm starting to feel secure in knowing my sexuality and I think I'm sure that I'm lesbian even though I was feeling insecure .
If you're comfortable with it then why not...you don't need to make a big thing of it, because essentially all you're doing is saying to her "Remember I said I was bi, well it turns out I'm lesbian" then move on to something else
Hey stocking =) I totally agree with ElliaOtaku. Since you already came out to her once and she seemed cool with it I wouldn't worry too much about her reaction. She'll probably appreciate the fact that you wanted to share it with her and explain it to her =) Good luck