He probably doesn't know that word, but when I was talking to him about crushes he told me that he "knows I like it all." I don't know how he would know about my crushes on girls. He probably only knows because it's nearly impossible to come out to one or two people without other people finding out.
Kind of. I don't want him to jump to conclusions with the limited information he has. I also don't like the idea of being pan or bi even though I'm okay with other people being pan or bi.
don't know how he would know about my crushes on girls. He probably only knows because it's nearly impossible to come out to one or two people without other people finding out. So you did come out? As what did you come out? I'm asking this, because you also say: I also don't like the idea of being pan or bi
So just so I'm clear, you DON'T like the fact that he appears to be COMPLETELY ACCEPTING of a non-straight orientation, just because he didn't specify the one you want to identify with, even though you don't fully identify with it anyway?
You've always got the option of just asking him if he thinks this and then you can clear up any misinformation he might.
i was thinking along the same lines. at least he isn't insisting you be straight or some such nonsense.