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I officially changed my gender preference.

Discussion in 'Gender Identity and Expression' started by Menaki-Neko, Mar 24, 2012.

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  1. Menaki-Neko

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    I've been so damn confused lately, it's gotten to the point where i'm practically hitting my head on the wall. :bang: I'm biologically male, but i'm so confused. :eusa_doh:
     
    #1 Menaki-Neko, Mar 24, 2012
  2. Chandra

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    I'm sorry to hear that you're feeling confused. Can you give us a bit more information about what you're going through?
     
    #2 Chandra, Mar 27, 2012
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    I'm just feeling so confused because I don't feel like I fit into any gender, or that i would feel happy as a man or woman. :icon_sad:
     
    #3 Menaki-Neko, Mar 27, 2012
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    Perhaps you are bigender, or something similar, then? Just as orientation isn't a binary, gender identity is a whole spectrum - and some people move along that spectrum between male and female, or are off in the distance in one direction or another :slight_smile: There are more labels than just the poles :wink:
     
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    Yes, as Nykoru says, you might be somewhere along the gender binary - bigendered, genderqueer, or even agendered. Do you feel most comfortable dressing androgynously, or do you like to move back and forth between a male and female presentation?
     
    #5 Chandra, Mar 27, 2012
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    I guess I have never about that. I haven't been able to experiment with women's clothes since I don't want anyone to find out.
     
    #6 Menaki-Neko, Mar 27, 2012
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    Just be yourself. Labels are so passe. You shouldn't feel ashamed of who you are. Androgony is actually pretty fashionable nowadays.
     
    #7 DhammaGamer, Mar 28, 2012
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