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I like men and women in different ways

Discussion in 'Sexual Orientation' started by AlwaysPLUR, Jun 26, 2017.

  1. AlwaysPLUR

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    Hey everybody, I was hoping for some advice or experiences here.
    Also, I'm going to try to word this as nonsexual as possible to keep up with the terms and conditions or whatever.
    So I'm AMAB and I love dressing up, being pretty, putting on makeup, shaving legs, etc etc.
    I've recently started considering myself genderfluid (but that's a whole other discussion).
    I love girls. I think being "cute/ beautiful" is much more appealing to them being "sexy." I love their smoothness and femininity and even their breasts, but sexual things like thrusting into them like a spasming boar is where I start to go towards the opposite spectrum.
    When it comes to men, I can definitely appreciate the sexiness of broad shoulders, a firm chest, and big arms. Most of my recreational fantasizing also comes from being the submissive and feminine one. But I've been on a date with one guy (a really good friend from college, we had a great date and he was easy to talk to) but when it came to kissing him a couple of times it just didn't feel right.
    I don't know.
    I'm not asexual or anything.
    I love the appearance of a female, but I also kind of want to *ahem* "BE" with a man.
    I'm still figuring this out myself, so I'm sorry if this comes off very ambiguous or strange.
    Anyways, thanks for reading and stuff,
     

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    tbh it sounds kind of like you are romantically attracted to girls, but sexually attracted to boys
     
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    Swimmingfly, I feel a lot of the same.... I am romantically and physically attracted to women, but love the thought of dressing up like a woman and being fem and play with toys, I just have never found a man attractive? I don't want to date or same thing as AlwaysPlur, kissing a man?

    Totally confused.....
     
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    it honestly comes down to who you want to bang.
     
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    BEST advice for figuring out your sexual orientation. Direct, accurate, and funny.

    Sorry to mildly derail... peace
     
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    ily maya:grin::thumbsup::heartbeat: