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I KISSED MY STRAIGHT BEST FRIEND - what do I do?

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  1. TwoWays

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    Little update...

    Jason and I and spending even more time with each other than usual and Jason is coming round mine all the time and we are taking things slow when it comes to the s-word. But we freaking adore one and other. Jason has come out to even more people, who all are supportive; a lot of people in our grade now we are boyfriends and they all think it is adorable. So our relationship has blossomed. :slight_smile:
     
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    ikr!!
     
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    please keep us updated!
     
    #63 TheAnon32, Mar 5, 2015
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    Congratulations!!! great to see how well it has all turned out.
     
    #64 Wildside, Mar 5, 2015
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    wow i really wish you the best and im kind jealous sorry but i am its kinda lonly here in closeted alabama
     
    #65 pokemonfan4life, Mar 5, 2015
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    Definately give him space. He's either coping with his homosexual feelings for you OR... he's trying to suppress them which will only cause you two more pain. :/ I really hope it works out!!
     
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    Little update...

    Jason and I are spending a lot of time together now, everyone in our grade knows about us being a couple. Jason has sorta "moved in" i.e. he sleeps round when ever my mom isn't home and has moved some of his 'knick-knacks' into my room. We show that we are a couple in public now and fortunately we haven't experienced any homophobia yet (despite the fact that city city council failed to vote in LGBT+ nondiscrimination ordinance). I've tried taking it slowly but he's been complaining that I'm taking things between us to slowly and has tried to speed everything up.

    Jason is coming round at about 4:30 (Eastern) then we are meeting up with Maria and going for dinner before going to another friends party. :slight_smile: So all in all, life is great at the minute, hope you're not all jealous! :icon_wink
     
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    does maria know about it
     
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    ^Yes, she was the first person we 'came out' to as a couple, as us three are the best and closest friends.
     
    #69 TwoWays, Mar 6, 2015
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    So I'm going to surprise Jason this June, as I've brought airplane tickets for us to go to Barcelona and Madrid!! We're going to spend 5 days in Barcelona before taking the train to Madrid, spending 3 days there before flying back to the states. I can't wait to see his reaction!! :grin:
     
    #70 TwoWays, Mar 8, 2015
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    This has gotten too good. So happy for you guys!

    May I propose a virtual toast to the lovely couple? *Swirls wine around in glass*
     
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    this is literally the best love story i have ever read
     
    #72 TheAnon32, Mar 8, 2015
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    Congrats man!

    If I were you though I would maybe slow thing down a bit. Everyone comes to term about their sexuality at their own pace. Just let him know that there is no pressure and that he should just let things progress naturally.
     
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    Wow, this thread was kinda inspiring. Jason is Lucky to have such a thoughtful guy.

    Hope everything goes well for you guys.
     
    #74 Burnedcloset, Mar 8, 2015
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    Such a great outcome! Its like a fairytale.. but real!
     
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    any updates?
     
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