This is, by far, the BEST day and most confusing day of my life. I spent all night planning out telling my best friend (who just happened to be my crush) that I'm gay. I called to invite him over and as usual we spent an hour talking about random things. In the middle of it, I asked him a bit about gay relationships and what he thinks, just as a hint to give him when I really do break the news. I never really asked him about it but the response was very weird..He told me he's all for it, when I asked 'why?' he said he thought that he told me before that he's bi..I mean..wow..just when I things couldn't get any better he said 'what about you?' I stuttered for a bit and he told me that he thought i was bi as well before..after i said yes and continued the conversation..he only responded with 'i knew it' I mean..wow...just..wow. I can't explain the feeling. I mean, I'm beyond happy yet I feel so calm..I feel like i should be running around like a madman right now but i just feel so relaxed! Hell, does this even qualify as coming out? I didn't even say anything. Meh, who cares, this was much much MUCH easier than I expected! It's all thanks to this site! Thanks alot for helping me out! I wouldn't have ever told anyone before I got this little push!
Congrats! Glad to hear it went so well ^_^ Reminds me of when I first came out as bi to a few friends. It was like 'hey guys, I'm bi' and they were like 'took you long enough' Anyways
Congrats!!! (!) :eusa_danc :eusa_clap And I hope that the situation turns out in your favor. Sidenote: I think at some point you might want to tell him you're gay just so he knows the truth.
He teed you up that well, and you said "bi" instead of "gay"?? Oh well, it's something I guess. It means he could be open to dating you.
Congrats! I haven't had a friend say that is was about time I had told but still I know how it feels to come out!
I am in the same boat as you were. Going to tell him soon (hopefully within a week). I can just hope that his reaction/response is the same. More of him just being accepting of it... but him being bi/gay would be a nice bonus :icon_bigg