How would you do anal sex with bowel problems.

I would certainly not have anal sex on days when you are having problems. It’s best to be evacuated and cleaned out ahead of time. I’ve not had a man, but I have plenty of experience with toys and women, and I try to follow that path

 

Yeah evacuation and cleaning are key, nothing ruins the mood like an unexpected release of your bowels onto your partner. These things are best planned ahead of time a day or two should be enough. Even those of us without gastric issue still need to plan ahead. You can youtube it.



She looks so plucky, I love her eyes.

 

Yes I actively try to avoid unexpected release. I don’t think that would attract a guy. Hey, want to have sex! Be warned, I may shit on you

 

First things first, Have sex with somebody who actually cares about you. It may sound campy but your first time should be special, anal especially. Sex can be nerve wracking and you need a safe and understanding environment. My first time was with my best friend he made me feel safe and comfortable, he was very helpful and understanding, he didnt pressure me at all and was willing to teach.

Later down the road I had a one night stand partner who was just in it for sex and used me. It started out consensual but I soon regretted it. He was rude, pushy and didnt give a damn about me, then he forced me, I was just a hole for his "manhood" and he didnt care that he was causing me pain. He became very angry at me and said that "I was like a corpse". Obviously this left me with some mental trauma.

So in addition to getting proper sex education and preparing and cleaning your anus. You need to find a supportive, patient, understanding partner who is willing to teach. And wont go crazy in the event of an accident (and yes they do happen).

@Biguy45 unexpected releases sometimes occur, they are thankfully usually small and it is something gay men have to live with. I call it butt-sex roulette.