So I've just moved to a large city, and would like to start exploring my sexuality anonymously. I'm 28, not out to anyone (only just myself), but would like to start meeting other gay people and seeing where it goes... Not after anything overly physical at this stage although a little intimacy wouldn't go amiss So how should I go about this... go to a gay club and hope to be chatted up? meet someone through a dating website... what do you all think? Thanks!
It all depends on you. I joined a local gay bowling league to meet other LGBT folk. Most people there are pretty nice and I made quite a few friends who aren't just interested in having sex. Though I didn't turn down the occasional guy who would hit on me and wanted to "hang" out. You can go the online route too on countless sites and meet local guys but most guys are looking for hook-ups. Not so great if you're looking for friends but it CAN happen.
I am also interested in this, although i'm 27 years old. From what i can tell however, gay clubs are nothing more but a cesspool of horny old men who look for nothing else than a one night stand. Similarly to online dating sites...