i have been out sense i was 13 and im now 20. i have never hidden who i am and all my friends knew i was lesbian when they became friends with me. but i just started my first serious relationship with a girl and now all my friends have become really distant and blow me off. what do i do or say to them?
You cannot change peoples' beliefs. Can you explain how they have become "distant"? Maybe they could genuinely be busy with school/life. (and then again maybe not, and just avoiding you.) Do they still talk to you?
Unfortunately, there's not a lot you can do. But if they're being distant from you for now reason, you're better off without them, you'll find some new friends