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How the hell did I end up here

Discussion in 'Gender Identity and Expression' started by Jaimequestions, Apr 27, 2023.

  1. Jaimequestions

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    I am male, married woth 2 kids and I work from home. On my down time at work, I love shopping online for men's underwear. I love the products, think some of the models are cute and I love seeing a good bulge. I think most men's fashions are bland and boring, until I found a trans store. Now I am wanting to buy dresses and leggings for work, since no one will see me. Around the family I am pretty straight laced. Does this sound like I am in the closet or a freak?
     
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    You're not a freak for liking clothing. I see no gender in a piece of fabric. There are so many ways to express yourself and there isn't nothing wrong with that. You like what you like.
     
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    Thanks for the advice. I ended up getting 2 cheap dresses to try out. One is light blue and one is brown and cut off at the knee. I cannot wait to throw on a dress and go to work.
     
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    Like Rayland said there is no gender on clothing and it's whatever fits you and whatever you like. I think getting something to try is always a good start.
     
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    Every Sunday millions of people worldwide see men wearing dresses whilst in their workplace - in church.

    Beth
     
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    So I tried the dress this morning. It was so much easier getting ready for work. Using the bathroom was easier. I loved it, so much more efficient.
     
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    I'm glad your able to express yourself in a comfortable environment and I'm so glad you liked the dress.