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How soon should I wait before dating

Discussion in 'LGBT Later in Life' started by Fuzzy, May 4, 2020.

  1. Fuzzy

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    I have been wanting a divorce for 3 years. I finally did it. Is it bad to start putting myself out there (virtually to start since there is a pandemic right now) right away?
     
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    I don't see any harm in chatting to other gay women online during lockdown.
     
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  3. Fuzzy

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    Now I just need to find them! Sure there's this site, but I need local, single, and ready to move on with life!
     
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    Really, the length of time you wait is all up to you.

    I've been split from my ex fiance for nearly 3 years at this point, and I'm ready emotionally for dating again, but I'm not yet ready physically
     
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    It's really up to you. I would say - When it feels right to you and you feel "at peace" with your last relationship.
     
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