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How old were you when you had your first orgasm?

Discussion in 'Physical & Sexual Health' started by Cerith23, Jan 28, 2015.

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How old were you when you had your first orgasm?

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  1. TigerInATophat

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    I've always had them for as long as I can remember.

    The earliest memory I have (not of masturbating, just in general) was from when I was about 3. But my mother informs me she'd seen me doing it long before then. I was actually surprised when I got older to learn that most people don't discover it until later, because I literally couldn't imagine a time when I didn't know how.

    What's sort of interesting is, when I was really little I didn't need to think about anything to achieve orgasm, it was a purely physical urge much like scratching an itch or whatever. Then as I got older I started to notice things I found arousing and would think about those but I had no knowledge of sex at that point. My thoughts only wandered into more typically sexual territory when I was in my teens. But even then as a teenager I was sometimes capable of achieving orgasm without any self-touching or arousing thoughts, I've referred to these before as "autonomous" orgasms and from what I can tell they would appear to be something of a rarity because I've not heard many people describe something similar. I have wondered if maybe because I was actively pursuing orgasms from such a young age, that perhaps my body developed a more automatic response that doesn't require as much -ahem- 'prompting'.



    Oh btw I am biologically female and still a virgin.
     
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    13, by accident. I was washing myself in the shower and I had the pressure turned up higher than usual. :icon_redf
     
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    I think I was 9 or 10.. I know that's young! I got educated on sex by my guy friends at school and I found a bunch of DVDs my uncle owned (adult films) and I saw the DVD covers and liked what I saw so i discovered masturbation :lol: I loved it so i kept doing it. I payed special attention to the women's breasts :wink:
     
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    I was about 13-14 years old at that time. I was re enacting the dude I watched in a Rated X CD (of course he's masturbating).
     
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    I'm soon to be 18years old, and I'm virgin,hadn't and orgasm
     
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    I used to masturbate from quite a young age (about 11) but I think my first real, mind shattering orgasm was around 14-15. ^.^
     
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    I don't even remember. But I was definitely in my early teens.
     
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    I was around 14 and had heard about masturbation in health class. Being the curious tanuki I am, I decided to experiment and my god, that first orgasm shocked the hell out of me.

    I think the only thing I could think of as I lay there trying to catch my breath after that intense release was, "Well that was interesting." x)
     
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    Very first seems-like-an-orgasm thing: 9 years old. I didn't relate it to anything sexual at the moment but it felt good anyway so I kept doing it during my pre-teenage years :icon_redf
    First proper orgasm: 12. It was a sunday night and I had such a mix of feelings. I had been watching stand up routines including adults jokes so I knew what was an orgasm, but I didn't know how it felt like until that one moment. After it happened I thought "oooh, so THAT'S an orgasm" :eek::eek::eek:
     
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    I don't know exactly what it feels like but I never have and I'm 16
     
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    I was 8, in the bath and found something poking out of the water, played with said something and wham bam thank the hand...Rest is history.
     
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    I started masturbating at 9 or whatever it is at that age but my actual first orgasm that involved cum was when I was 13 I was watching a guy jerk off in a porn video
     
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    I was really young and a virgin (still am) I did it through masturbation although at the time I didn't know what I was doing.
     
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    Sorry OP I voted without understanding it was meant for the ladies :frowning2:

    But I was probably about 11... in the shower I was washing myself down there and it felt good so I kept going and got a rather big shock.

    I think guys do it so early because a) any pressure touching etc. makes it feel good and we obviously want to continue to feel good. b) once erections start happening its really hard to ignore...
     
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    i was 10 when i first realized that when my boner got 'rubbed' it felt good but at the end nothing come out. The first one with ejaculation when i was at 13 when i see homoerotic painting of lets say more than 3 guys involved within the action
     
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    Must have been 11-12, the summer before I started middle school. That was the year I started to be "corrupted" by MTV and other adult-themed shows, lol.
     
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    Well, since a load of other guys are answering, I might as well too.

    Don't remember exactly - probably 12. I used to rub my penis against things before then, but it never resulted in an orgasm. All I knew is it felt good. When I first discovered how good it felt to 'touch myself', I used to run home and go into my bedroom, lol.
     
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    I was 13 (so still a virgin) when I had my first orgasm. The orgasm itself wasn't that fantastic but the build up to it was so intense, it was frightening! :icon_redf