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How long have you been gay or lesbian?

Discussion in 'Chit Chat' started by davidguitar20, Jan 23, 2015.

  1. tulipinacup

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    It all started when I got bored of eating out meat wallets..
     
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    All my life undoubtedly...but officially, truly, openly, joyfully, and completely gay? Since February 2013.
     
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    I saw a Rainbow one day.. I was curious what it was at the end.. There I saw it.. I walked into the beam.. And came out as a GAY MAN!! :tears:
     
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    I've had an idea I might be a lesbian when I was around 12 years old. When I was 18 I had my first experience with a girl in college and then I fully accepted it. I have never been with a guy nor have I ever slept with one. I'm 24 now so I guess I have official known for 6 years now.
     
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    I have never been a gay or lesbian, because I like everyone!! <33
     
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    Well one time I was at home watching TV and I heard a knock at the door. I Answered it and there were two beautiful men who said to me, "Sir, do you have a moment to h?" And so I saibarhear the word of The Gay Agenda?" And I said yes and after they explained the word of Queer they invited me to their gay bar and that's when I became gay.

    I thougt I was bisexual since maybe 9th grade but never acted on it. I always wanted to be gay when I was a kid/teen, but I thought I wasn't because I thought everyone who was knew since birth. Honestly the thought never even crossed my mind that I could be gay until I was 16 years old (last summer like June or July) and I had a crush on a boy at work, and my girlfriend broke up with me, and I thought for a while, then I said "Yep that's me." And then I came out to my immediate family in September. I'm still confused right now, but someday it will all go away and I'll be free from this confusion. I've already reached the conclusion, now my brain is just trying to convince me otherwise.
     
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    I knew when I was 6 that I would be happy if I grew up and had a wife. I knew I liked girls when I was 13 and I first described myself as gay when I was about 15.

    And yes, I've been in one serious lesbian relationship and gone on dates with a fair few women.
     
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    Since attraction began. My earliest memory is getting a crush on a boy in my 3rd grade class. I admitted it to myself when I understood sexuality.
     
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    I watched Lady Gaga's Born This Way music video for the first time an well... things just went downhill from there.
     
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    Decide? Do we really decide this?
     
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    Since I stared into the rainbow and it stared back at me.
     
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    I don't remember. I've always had an attraction to other boys since I was little. But I went through my phases of denial because I didn't want to be hated by my father. So the times throughout my life where I kept jumping the fence tend to blur together. Like, I was attracted to other boys when I was 10 or 11, then in my teens years of 14 or 15, I maintained the image of being straight. At 17, I started to question everything. And after that, I gave up trying to be straight and told myself to "let nature do what it is supposed to do."