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How long did you lurk before you joined EC?

Discussion in 'Chit Chat' started by returning, Feb 21, 2013.

  1. caughtbywitness

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    haha don't do lurking, straight away :slight_smile:
     
  2. greatwhale

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    Same here, went right in!
     
  3. Ridiculous

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    It was about a year (most of 2010). I didn't visit very often during that time though; maybe once every few weeks or so.
     
  4. Marvel

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    Like a month

    It's important to know the dynamic of these things before diving in lol.
     
  5. campervankid

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    about 3 months because I didnt want to admit to myself I was gay :slight_smile:
     
  6. 4ever Hearth

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    This is literally the exact situation I was in last night when I found EC. And after I made my account I sent three texts out, two to my best friends and one to my younger cousin, all lesbians basically saying "Hey, I've found the holy grail of Gay Communication." :eusa_danc
     
  7. Alex94

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    The day I found EC I joined, seemed perfect for me. Guess I was right!!! :grin:
     
  8. Rachyl

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    As soon as I found the EC I joined right away, which really helped A LOT. Since initially joining though I've been lurking more lately, just too overwhelmed at the moment.
     
  9. mickey1101

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    Same here only forgot until like a week later
     
  10. Nyanko

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    THIS. Literally every question about my sexuality I put into Google took me here, but it took a few weeks for me to actually make an account. Since then I've gotten so attached to this place. :icon_bigg
     
  11. I joined right away
     
  12. DannyBoi66

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    Few days. I would've joined on my first day but I was scared my Mum/Mom might find out...
     
  13. ilovecats

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    Same happend to me. Lurked for about a day, signed up, posted maybe ten times, and didn't post again until a few weeks ago.
     
  14. Devious Kitty

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    I decided just a few days ago that I should join a lgbt forum. So I went to google, and after looking at this site for about 2 or 3 minutes I joined. (Well, it took me a bit come come up with a username.) Thus here I am! :grin:

    I kinda wish I was more paranoid about this sort of stuff. I keep leaving atheist and lgbt related threads and stuff open when I have people over... I know they have to of noticed. I mean one was for some reason on my bookmarks bar. >.>

    Don't worry too much about the past. I'm glad to have you here now. Of course, I suppose this doesn't mean much, since I just got here and don't really know you. xD
     
  15. ForgottenRose

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    Maybe an hour? lol
     
  16. Lurked for a little bit to see if I wanted to join and then I did! :grin:
     
  17. Chloe

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    Didn't lurk - I thought I posted right after joining, but I checked and learned that it took me a few days to post something. After that, I became distracted by my other online activities for a long time. I've been out since 1978 and my needs are in other areas, but I want to support this site by contributing when I can, so I'm back.
     
  18. Rivers

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    Thirty seconds or so, haha! EC just struck me as a great site, and I wanted to join as quickly as possible.
     
  19. FunnyMonkey

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    A long time maybe a year or so.
     
  20. lolgaby

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    A few minutes ×__×