How long did they know?

I'll say 24+ because my mom said she had been suspecting it 'for a few years' based on some verbal clues I had apparently dropped (that I probably wasn't even aware of, because even I didn't suspect I was leaning towards gay, lol).

In honest though, no one I've come out to yet has said they knew it for a while or had even highly suspected it. Overall, it's mostly just a "oh, ok" and maybe a "I wasn't sure/hadn't thought of it, but it's not a surprise." It's funny; the last person I came out to said, "Oh, you think?" with what I mistook to be at least a slight sense of sarcasm, like she was expecting it all along. She said she hadn't been suspecting it or thinking about it much, so I was just reading into the response, lol.

Part of me almost wishes someone would do that though, the "Uhhh, yeah. Gee, you think? You're kind of clearly gay" response. I don't know. Perhaps I want the validation that someone else fully suspected it years ago?

 

I said 10-12, not really sure could have been more. All I know is that, my mom tried outing me as a lesbian a while before I actually came out as trans*.

 

My mom's been asking me about it for years. My dad is pretty clueless even though he found some incriminating evidence against me a few years ago.

 

My parents don't know I'm bi yet... but my sister said she already had suspicions for a long time and they were confirmed last summer when I was checking out guys at the beach (horomones... guilty as charged)... she also said I act way too flirty around the guy I like (so ya, she also guessed my crush...)