How far would you go?

I have a few rules when going out on first dates.

1. Never kiss. You don't know the other person well enough to allow them to kiss you.
2. No holding hands. That's reserved for people you like.

For me, I'm of the belief that you can only know whether you are attracted to a person by the first date and whether that person is good long-term material. Only after subsequent dates would I even begin to get close.

Of course, I'm a slowgoer.. But it's just me. =)

 

I guess it depends on the person. But I would range from kissing to all the way. Depending.

 

Hmm-well I think I probably couldn't hold back from kissing-
but probably not full-on make out session (as I've already
done that once and we never spoke again afterwards).
But no farther-I like to keep it classy. Well-at least until
he's my man. So-maybe a kiss, but a short one that
leaves more to be desired, so he comes back for more
(the next time). Or-If I can find the will power, just flirting.

 

I'm lucky if I manage to go on a Date before I sleep with them.

If I had more self control, I would prefer to go no further then a small kiss.

 

I would like a first date - but that's another topic. I think it would depend on so much. Not sure I would go all the way until I know more about our feelings. I like sex but need tenderness.

 

I think it would depend on how well I knew the person beforehand. The only girl I've ever really dated was a friend first, and even with her, it was just holding hands, hugs and pecks on the cheek. (And we never progressed further than that, didn't make it past about the third date.)

 

ive mucked around heaps when i was younger when i stayed at mates places sleeping but only slept naked and masturbated with them and they did to but we never had sex and they didnt to. when me and peter met we mucked around a few times before we went all the way

 

It would depends on who the person was...like, how well I knew them before hand, and that i knew what type of character they were.
I've made out on a first date, but I'd known the girl for months before hand and knew her really well.
And about the whole sex thing...it depends...When I was feeling really down, I'd sleep with people without a date even being involved. Stupid, stupid person, i know. But I wouldn't do that anymore, I'd kinda like the first time I sleep with a partner to be fairly special.

 

If I've liked him for a while, holding hands and hugging or even spooning would be alright.

If it was someone I just met through friends, it'd probably just be a good night hug. If even that.

 

If he plays his cards right, he can go all the way



But if he screws up, he doesn't even get to hold my hand

 

Hugs okay, holding hands okay, probably no kissing.
I don't show affection until I really feel it, and with me it takes time.

 

I have kissed and gone all the way on a first date. It depends on how I feel about the person.

 

It really depends on how strong my feelings for that person is.
But i would probably not go any longer than kissing =/.

 

I might want to redefine a few things - the idea of "THE date" to me is ridiculous. I don't go searching around online for someone to have dinner with, and I can't see myself in that position any number of years from now either. I would rather just spend time with a person than go have lunch or watch a movie. Walking around together, just enjoying someone's company, that's how I would like to get connected to a person. Where the connecting ends and the dating begins, I don't know. I don't like to plan things out that rigidly.

 

ive made out on a first date before, but i wouldnt go any further than that.

 

In order to go past a hug good-bye, I'd have to at least know the guy fairly well and have a good connection with him. Even then, the most would maybe be a kiss, if I really liked him.

Also, I have similar feelings as Wander's last post. Good job outta you

 

I'd definitely dodge the kiss if they go for it. In an antagonizingly cute way, though.

 

Here's a secret about me: if I like the guy, I liked to be kissed on the cheek while saying good-bye (or etc.)... Nothing more on a first date. But the thing is, people don't know that I like that.:dry:

 

too much drama

 

seriously, it depends on the guy and how the date went. I couldnt tell you now because it could vary, that and i havent been on a date yet