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How far have you gone (sexually)?

Discussion in 'Chit Chat' started by Owen, Apr 8, 2013.

  1. Britishskittles

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    This thread makes me feel better about not having any sort of physical relationship in a while because In the real world it sometimes seems like every bodies having sex but me
    The one male I had sex with once was also the only boy ive ever done anything more than a hug with
    female wise I have a hard time cause I am always getting told " I don't look gay" and when I try and talk to girls I get all embarrassed so I have only ever done stuff above the belt
     
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    Not at all.
    Only a chaste kiss or two, in two short relationships.
     
  3. Unsurevirgin

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    Just a kiss,sexting and um controlling myself lol
     
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    Umm, not much I haven't at least tried (safely and with participants of legal age) and not much I wouldn't do again. Enjoyed it without second thoughts.
     
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    When I was 13, I went to "3rd base" with a guy, excluding oral sex. Needless to say, he wasn't very good, and it was sometimes painful.
    When I was 14, I had outercourse with a girl 3 years older than me. That's when I knew I liked the same sex. XD
    When I was 16, I lost my virginity to a 24-year-old woman (and she was very good). It's also known as "3rd base" with a guy. Though, she performed oral sex on me, but I have yet to have given oral to someone else.
    But that day will come! :eusa_danc
     
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    Not counting the exotic stuff, I've done all the basic combinations of mouths, hands, breasts and/or lower parts, and pretty much all as both giver and receiver, and with both men and women. Of the possible body part combinations, there's one thing I haven't done TO anyone and one thing I haven't done to a woman. I haven't done any new sex acts since I was about 27, just variations of the originals.
     
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    With guys: everything you CAN do (except anal)
    With girls: Unfortunately, nothing but platonic hand holding and hugging :/ (Just identified myself as a lesbian, so I have time... Plus, I'm only 16. Looking forward to University.... That's all I'll say :wink:
     
  8. Oddish

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    Guess I can one-up this and say that some things occurred this previous weekend. Boring Sunday afternoon with no parents in the house leads to things.

    I'm sure in a cismale pov what I did would only be considered third base or so, so go figure.
     
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    only kissed a guy once and boob touching French kissed a girl couple of time other stuff happened not going in to details
     
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    Nothing as of yet. Have never had a girlfriend in my life, so I've had no opportunity for sexual experience.
     
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    Very little. I find I'm very clueless when it comes to telling when someone is hitting on me so that's probably part of the reason.
     
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    With girls, sexual intercourse. With guys, I've given a blowjob but I haven't tried anal. Dunno if I will.
     
  13. I've never even kissed or been on a date with anyone.
     


  14. wow difficult

    first - I also have been active - however - I do not wear it like a badge of honor


    I rate them different

    1st Base - Kissing can even be with tongue
    2nd Base - Groping and possibly petting
    3rd Base - petting under the clothes or with clothes off, even touching genitals
    Home Run - Sex and YES oral sex IS sex - if it is not then what the heck do you think we lesbians do?



    I have gone all the way with both genders - but not the first time until I was 21
    I was casually active and had a long term partner for quite a while
    I have also been with non gender binary people (I have seen this mentioned)

    I am now exclusively lesbian - basically figured that out at 25


     
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    I had a girlfriend for a few days and she put her arm around my shoulder, but that's it.
    Oh well, I'm only fourteen.
     
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    Based on Dublin Boy and givepeaceachanc's base system, I've been to second base with a guy. With a woman... does undressing one with my eyes count?
     
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    I had a friend and we liked to cuddle a lot. She let me touch her breast once (when I was finally comfortable enough to try). We might have done more if I was more forward and confident, but even cuddling was a huge step for me and I couldn't handle much else.

    So far that's as much sexual activity that I've ever had.
     
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    Nowhere...yet.
     
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    I got to second base, and could've gone further if I had wanted to.

    I'm a virgin because everytime the opportunity to lose it has presented itself, the person was someone who I wasn't ready with to bond on an intimate level.
     
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    I'm in the same boat. Most of the people I've ended up dating were really only interested in sex, nothing else. Casually sex just isn't for me.