I seem to find that I find a greater number of females sexually attractive but whenever I do feel attracted to men, my attraction is generally more intense. Just asking, how would you guys judge which gender you feel more sexually attracted to: through the intensity of your sexual attraction or how often you feel attracted to someone of a particular gender?
Your question may be tricky for me to answer, as a bisexual. But I would say I judge my sexuality based on who I see that I actually find myself wanting to have sex with...about whom do I fantasize, what do I want to do, would I actually do it if the option was presented? I'd say that intensity is pretty strong with both men and women...but it is more common for me to stop in my tracks and go "whoa, damn!" with a woman than with a man. For those reasons and more, I rate myself as a Kinsey 4 (bisexual, with a minor preference for women).
