Hi everyone! My name is Toby, I'm 19 and I'm bi. Thankgoodness I was introduced to this site because of a friend that is also in the closet. Hmm I've never written a blog or really liked posting about myself.but here it goes... I never thought that being bi would be SOO stressing and nerve wrecking. Who knew that id be in the same boat trying to figure out a way to be happy with the orientation I'm stuck with. I was brought up in a family that is homophobic and simply bashes on the idea that men could be be happy with other men, or women with other women. Soo throught this anonymous site I hope to soon make new friends and learn that being bi isn't bad after all. Simply that I can live a happy life with another guy or live a mild lonely life :3
First off, your sexuality is never bad, it's usually all the haters that are gonna hate hate hate. They make you feel like you are an abomination but that you can be fixed. If God made you in his image, than in his image you're bi. If God made me in his image, than in his image, I am gay. There's always a solution, and I've always told you that
Hello! Welcome to EC! Sorry to hear about your family. But just about everybody here is a potential friend, so make yourself at home!
Hello Toby, welcome to EC. In the last three days I shared with this site more than I shared in my whole life and it helped. It didn't change my surrounding but it did change me. So writing in blogs and participate in threads you will know people like you and make friends.
Hello and welcome to Empty Closets community, Toby! First off, sexuality is not something bad, nor is it something one should be ashamed of. You being bisexual is just as normal and acceptable as a straight person. I hope you'll find whatever you're searching for! Best wishes, Andrew
Hey Toby....it will work out! Some people will reject you no matter what, others will make that difficult choice to remain your friend. You just have to take it slow. Change..especially big change is always tough.
hi toby welcome to ec! I'm sure you'll make new friends here...I have met a few feel free to talk to people...they're all pretty friendly... have fun
Hi! I just joined yesterday and already fell like this site is one of the best things that could have happened to me. You should feel very at home here