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Discussion in 'Coming Out Advice' started by Somelonelyguy77, May 22, 2014.

  1. Somelonelyguy77

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    HEY guys. I'm really happy because I just came out to everybody in my basic family!! (Mom dad sisters brother) but the thing I'm wondering is what now? Do I do whatever freely? I've come out to half my school and I don't give a damn what other people think. Sooo what now?? :slight_smile:
     
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    Do whatever the hell you want!


    Congrats!
     
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    Well done!

    Just enjoy the feeling of freedom and the change in your outlook and openness.

    It just means you can talk openly with everyone about your life, your interests, who you're interested in, your goals and aspirations instead of hiding them away in case you let your "secret" slip out.

    Otherwise, unless you've lost friends or family in the process, pretty much nothing changes.

    You might get other people coming out to you from time to time though, be prepared for that.

    Peace be with you.
     
  4. Aaron82

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    Live your life.:grin:
     
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    You are so lucky to realize that you are gay early, and don't give a flip who knows about it. That is the way it ought to be for everybody. Go enjoy yourself.
     
  6. This is so much. I had a feeling I was gay since I was 14, yet I'm still mostly in the closet. You are one lucky guy. :thumbsup:
     
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    .......go to Disneyland? :slight_smile:

    Congrats on coming out..
     
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    What you do now, is enjoy life and the freedom of not giving a fuck what other people think. I admire your attitude, person. Other than that, though, coming out is usually not nearly as life-changing as people make it out to be. I suppose you just keep doing what you're doing and wait for some amazing guy to come sweep you off your feet.
     
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    Atta lad! Be proud of yourself, coming out isn't easy! Just continue where you left off with your life since I'm pretty sure that after coming out nothing much of anything changes...well, unless some people disapprove of your sexual preference which in that case, mind them.