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Discussion in 'The Welcome Lounge' started by Dancueorsaurus, Dec 15, 2008.

  1. Dancueorsaurus

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    Hi. I'm new here. I just found this website browsing but am glad I did.

    Well I’m 14-almost 15, single, bi, still figuring out life, and enjoying being young.

    I was only into guys until about four months ago. I have one really close friend that I've know since the 1st grade and we've been friends forever. I started taking interest in her, thoughts of kissing her, etc. I finally asked one of my friends who is openly lesbian if I was turning into one too. After much discussion I found of that I fancy both women and men, thus I am bisexual.

    Only the friend I asked about the situation knows I'm bi. I'm scared of coming out, as I am on the high school dance team consisting of 40-some odd girls and two guys. I don’t want things being spread around school, loosing friends over it, or having my parents be disappointed in me as they are both very against gays and gay rights.

    Questions have been asked but I've been too scared of coming out to say anything, so I laugh and deny it. It leaves me with a guilty feeling when I do that though. : /


    Well hopefully I am sure you all can help me out. That's what this site if for right? : D And I'm sure I will make some new friends on the way.
     
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    Hi and welcome to EC! Enjoy being young while you still are. Lol. And I'm sure you'll fit right in on this site. :slight_smile:
     
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    Welcome to EC!! :grin: Yeah sure we'll help out, feel free to PM me or anyone else if you need to. :slight_smile:
     
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    Welcome! I'm from Oregon too. :grin:
     
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    Welcome! I'm glad you found EC. It's a great place for advice,friendship
    And just being yourself.
     
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    Hi and welcome to EC from Jim in Toronto!
     
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    heeyyy! Welcome to EC :grin: yeah we're all pretty friendly here, feel free to ask/moan/anything else on here
     
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    Welcome to EC!

    if you do decide to come out you will find out who ur true friends are. i'm not really the dancer type and i've tended to avoid the people that were. so i don't really know how to help you with them. i would talk to your friend who knows and see if she can help you with anything

    i hope all that works out for you!
     
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    Hey, welcome to EC!
     
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    Welcome! (*hug*)
     
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    Welcome to EC.
     
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