Have you fallen for the straight one yet?

I have done a variation of this. I'm a closet pansexual female who
Keeps falling head over heels for absolutely gay men. It's kind
Of funny in a way, because my 'gay-dar' is usually not working.
I see people as people, and even if a guy is femme, it doesn't phase
Me when I start to like him. Sometimes the fellow is one of my best
Buddies & doesn't have a clue as to what's going on.

On the other hand, it makes me feel very sad & heartbroken at times.
I'm more frustrated with myself, like I'm stupid...

I haven't really approached a lady yet. I have been raised to think
"Gays are horrible sinners" all my life... So you go figure out what
All this means.

Sorry I rambled.

 

Personally, I'd rather be told directly that the person is not interested in me. It's certainly harsh, but at least it's out of the way and I can move on much faster than with someone who rejoices in the attention he's getting from knowing that I'm attracted to him as he teases me both physically and psychologically

At least I've got the support of pretty much every member in the club I'm in. :lol:

 

Considering no one is out at my school, pretty much everyone is allegedly straight, so undoubtedly, I've fallen for straight guys...

 

All the time.

 

Hasn't everyone?

 

I've gotten several straight crushes, but the feelings pass too quickly to do much. Those fiercely resilient longings for particular straight guys (who have usually been my friend for a LONG time), though, is horrific. I've literally been in love with him, but it was respectfully unreciprocated. Still friends, though, and it's not awkward at all. So I'm thankful.

I've learned to let go and move on, but you can't really make the persisting aching that comes with it do a vanishing act. =x

 

I always like straight girls and gay boys. v_v
Pretty luckily I haven't been in love with one, that's pretty lucky it never was that far.
But still.

 

I'm actually quite enamored with a (most likely) straight girl at the moment. She is beautiful and really sweet; I just can't help but like her. Eventually this crush will fade (I hope). Even if she can't like me the way I like her, I'm happy to have her as a friend.

 

I've fallen for one of my best friends who is straight

 

Essentially all the guys I've had a crush on/fallen for have been straight.

Either i have masochistic tendencies or MY GAYDAR IS BROKEN.

 

My crushes are most often straight women. It hurts like hell.

 

Yes, I've done that many times.
The hardest was when I fell for my music teacher, oh, I loved her so much but she was straight and married to a man. :tears:

 

No. I have this mental block where I just can't fall for straight women

 

Yeah, one of my closest friends. As far as I know, he's straight. He jokingly flirts and teases, but that's just us messing around with each other. I don't mind it, but it sometimes gives me a hoping feeling that he's closeted.

 

Minor crushes have happened but I have a lot of control preventing it from going further. It just plain sucks. Why bother? Waste of energy. I try to focus on the hot masc gay guys instead, although hard to find. Why waste it on a bunch of pussyhounds?

 

Definitely a lot of times! I tend to have fantasies with straight men

 

Oh, yes, many times. Many many many times. At this point, I can't even worry about it. It will continue to happen, because all the guys I find are "straight."

 

Please teach us, oh great master of the straight-crush-dilema :eusa_clap