Have you ever tried flirting and seducing somebody straight of your own sex?

Hello,

I was 7 when I held hands with a girl I really liked, she agreed so I thought she liked me back, but I got the message when I wanted to kiss her and she didn't want to. Not that I knew either of our sexuality until way later, only found she was hetero- last year.

 

Yes, but I didn't know he was straight until I hung out with him more. He was a very metrosexual kind of guy, and I'm ashamed that I relied on some stereotypes to determine if he was gay, haha.

He would also give me clear signs of flirting, like staring at me from across the room, making excuses to talk to me, and he actually gets a little upset whenever I don't say bye to him when I leave his house, I'm a pisces, and he's a Virgo. On the first night I met him, he told me "Oh, so you're a Pisces? You know, Pisces and Virgos are meant to be together." Cheesy as fuuhhhhck but I liked it anyway.

LOL. But whatever - if he says he's straight, he's straight.

 

Yes I did, i though i could "turn" her ^^ that obviously didn't work !
The funny thing is that she didn't know i wasn't straight at the time so when i would heavily flirt with her she only saw it as me being really nice to her (and maybe a bit inappropriate but eh, i can only do so much). I remember I would just start a conversation like "eh stop thinking about me", or "i'm so bored, wanna be my time-killer ? ". And then when she would ask me something, i'd just say "I'll always have time for you " and things like that. It was so obvious, but so funny because she didn't know i was gay, well of course it wasn't so funny at the moment because it was kinda breaking my poor little heart that she din't like me back but when i think back about it it was funny ! I don't think i've been that flirty ever since, maybe that's why i'm still single who knows xD

 

I'm afraid of flirting with men (more afraid than when flirting in general) that I'm not certain are gay or bi. I the other day a project partner of one of my roommates was in our dorm and I thought he was really cute, but I didn't say much because I was worried that if he caught on it have catastrophic results for me.

 

Haha yes! It usually didn't work at all, they always just thought I was being really nice and complimenting them. I don't do it very often now, because they're straight and if they aren't attracted to girls in general, there's not much you can do.
It helps me figure out if a girl is bi/lesbian or not when they know I'm flirting with them, because if they just think I'm being nice, then they don't know how it works- therefore the chances of them being into me are lower. (If that makes sense?)

 

I flirt with pretty much everyone I know.

 

Same here. :lol:

 

I don't think I have the guts to do that not only because I don't really like flirting outside of people I have feelings for but also because I'd fear getting punched in the face.

 

I kinda wait for other people to make the first move because I'm terrified of rejection. I wouldn't either way though. It seems kinda mean to make those advances on someone you know isn't comfortable with it.

 

No, that's a recipe for rejection at best and violence at worst.

 

No, I've never tried seducing straight guys an I probably won't.
But yeah I do flirt with cute guys.

 

The girls I dated before coming out were straight as far as I'm aware.... That count?

 

I flirt with everyone. lol

 

I flirt with everyone, but I once made out with my straight (ex) best friend while we were drunk. It took convincing. I was completely hammered, didn't give a shit whether she was straight or not lol.

 

I learned my lesson from the pokemon games.
Flirting with straight people is a waste of your turn.

Kira used Attract!

But it failed!

 

I've accidentally flirted with straight girls before. ((WHY ARE GIRLS SO FRIENDLY, IT's CONFUSING!!!) lol!! Well, they didn't realise because I'm pretty subtle unless I get some obvious hints, which is hard because I'm realllly bad at telling flirting apart from friendliness, which I've mistaken several times -___- But no awkward encounters yet. I've been too careful I would probably try if I really liked them and knew they were straight though without pushing it. You never know if someone might be a little bisexual.

 

Yes...I always get crushes on straight girls. That doesn't stop me really I flirt anyway. I'm pretty sure they don't know I'm flirting though lol. Maybe because my flirting skills suck. Oops

 

Seduce? No.
Flirt? Yeah. I pretty much flirt with everyone compulsively and then get confused when some one does the same back.

 

Nah that's just fucked. But I don't usually attempt flirting unless I know the person and have some idea of what their sexuality might be.