My girlfriend and I have been together for almost a year! (YAY!) We haven't come out to our parents yet and she doesn't allow me to even touch her at school. No hugs, hand holding, nothing. I am becoming frustrated as I want to come out but she doesn't want to come out. She says that she prefers to sneak around and 'do whatever the hell we want', but the facts are, her mother hasn't let us have a sleepover in 2 months, and my mother wont let me outside of the house by myself and it's becoming harder and harder for me. She keeps saying 'nope' to coming out and I know I should respect her decision to not come out, but I am so tired of waiting. It's suffocating me. I would love any advice you have for me. Lots of Love, Lady Lover. (!)
Hi there Have you let her know how much it means to you? Maybe you could come out without her, although I'm not sure how obvious that would make your relationship to your families.
