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Hard to choose

Discussion in 'Sexual Orientation' started by Monak, Jun 23, 2015.

  1. Monak

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    Gender:
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    Sexual Orientation:
    Bisexual
    i always have been attracted to girls but i havent even try with girl I have always date only with guys and trying to hide that side of me which is hard to hide, mostly trying to hide it from myself. I am in a serious relationship with a guy and i feel so stuck and hard to know what is the best to do. I dont feel like telling anyone around me about this i am soo scared of how would they react to it. So i am really clueless i do care for this guy but i dont want to spend all my life in hiding from that part and dont have my full freedom. So what should i do? :/
     
  2. Pret Allez

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    Hey sweetie (*hug*)

    I don't think you should have to choose. That's just me. As bisexuals, sometimes we have to struggle with a multitude of attractions, and some of us choose the route of having an open and honest conversation with our partners about it. There are a few people on the forum who have managed to do it ethically, and I'd love for them to chime in.

    Luvs, Adrienne