Guys question

Discussion in 'Chit Chat' started by Andrew99, Feb 7, 2014.

  1. QueerTransEnby

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    I'll give most people a shot if our personalities are similar, and I find you attractive. To be fair, I'm still trying to figure out the ideal guy for myself to some extent. Being in the closet doesn't lend you to think about relationships much. Just because I said prefer masculine doesn't mean a flamboyant guy is out altogether.

    Regardless, whomever I date will have to understand that I've only bottomed, and they would be a top or at the least versatile. I mean realistically that is part of the equation too.
     
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    yeah i get your point and well just what i meant that if you want to know the personality in the first place just dont say that all flamboyant guys are just stupid dramatic nelly bottom boys (not that you said honey just saying what most people say) just try to get to know them better if your looking for a date dont do the mistake most people do when they judge by the outside cause its not fair
    and im versatile and if i was in the usa i would show you how much good i can be as a femme top :icon_wink
    lol :grin:
     
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    Ok, then. :stuck_out_tongue_closed_eyes: Hey, I'm still learning. After being in the closet for 19 years, I have a lot of old thought patterns to break. It's only been about 2 months that I have fully come to terms with being bi.

    I will say one thing I do like about a lot of femme guys is the sparkly silver belts or pink belts. Why do I like them? No idea, just always been fascinated by unique belts I guess. :stuck_out_tongue_closed_eyes:
     
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    Oh Andrew I'm very disappointed in you :bang: it doesn't matter anymore and also feminine guys are so sweet but I know u really want someone who's in the middle of masculine and feminine but honestly Andrew I don think it would work out for you with a super masculine guy :eusa_doh:
     
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    Talking to yourself in an old thread. Have it already came to this Andrew, talking to yourself is one thing but answering yourself, is a problem. Get better Andrew get better.
     
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    Oh so what r ya sayin I'm not mentally stable huh? Huh? Huh? Well? I'm waiting!!! Answer me
     
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    Fascinating.
     
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    That's right joshy and kageshiro it doesn't matter to me anymore whether a guy is masc or femme as long as I'm in love it just doesn't matter anymore.
     
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    For the record, I'm femasculine and wouldn't care if my partner leaned more toward the feminine or masculine side of the scale as long as he is awesome.
     
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    I know right?!?!?
     
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    (*hug*)
     
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    I couldn't care less. Masculinity or femininity doesn't really matter to me. Love moves in mysterious ways. I'd rather be with someone who loves me than someone who I like just because of how masculine or feminine he is.

    In fact, body type doesn't matter to me, too. If you're as fat as the most obese guy or as thin as a stick, don't care. As long as I feel that "something" I can't even explain, then we're good.
     
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    Depends what you mean by "masculine". I'd definitely prefer dating someone with a guy-like personality, but I'm not attracted to big muscles, facial hair or anything like that.

    So it's a difficult question to answer.
     
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    Your a silly little monster .
     
  17. I want to date a masculine guy. I seriously sound like one of those straight girls who are like "Why are all the good guys gay?" Except it's with straight boys LOL
     
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    I prefer masculine guys, but being feminine isn't a deal-breaker for me.
    Maybe I'm biased, but that's what I prefer.
     
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    I thought of this thread because I saw the movie "Hold Your Peace" yesterday, and I was attracted to the fem. guy. So, I don't discriminate. :stuck_out_tongue_closed_eyes: