Late twenty-something here who has spent the past 6-7 years trying to figure myself out and pin down the things that 'make me tick'. Recently came to the understanding that my orientation is strongly-linked to my gender-identity/gender-perception. I started out identifying as asexual, trans-masculine, panromantic, mostly dating men. [with occasional crushes on women] I now identify as queer and genderfluid, androgyne [currently reclaiming my femininity], and homoromantic/gyne-romantic. Getting close to the big 3-0 and suddenly the world of love and romance [and especially the newly-discovered lesbian dating scene] has gotten really confusing and intimidating to me. I feel like I'm neither here nor there, or like I don't really belong anywhere. I'm something in-between and that is a very lonely place to be.
Welcome I'm also trying to figure some things out right now Good luck and I hope you find the advice you need here ( ^∇^)
Hey! Welcome to EC! I hope being here helps you feel a little less lonely. There are lots of nice, helpful people to talk to if you ever need anything or just want to chat.