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Goodbye Bi

Discussion in 'Coming Out Stories' started by Alex768, Mar 11, 2009.

  1. Alex768

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    After careful consideration, I think I've come to the conclusion that I am, indeed, gay.

    I'm still rather confused though, because a part of me still is attracted to women (more emotionally than physically). So, idk, maybe I'll be fully Bi one day :grin:; but for the most part, I'm pretty sure I'm gay.

    Just thought I would let everyone know that I have discovered my true sexuality.

    Coming out to oneself sure does feel good.
     
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    Congratulations!

    If you've decided that this is what you are, then I'm glad you have. :slight_smile:
     
  3. ricoca

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    Ahh I'm going through that process....
    congrats to you!
    *hugs*
     
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    Yeah, congratulations Alex; I know how good it can feel when you suddenly can see through the fog!

    But remember, you're still just you - as you were before. If you now feel that you know yourself to be gay (although that doesn't have to be 'set in stone' forever), that's fine; but it's only a part of who you are and it doesn't define you. Be happy!
     
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    kudos! glad u joined the team :wink:
     
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    I was in the same boat a while back. I have a physical attraction to women, but I really just can't get intimate with them, there's no spark. However, its the total opposite with guys. Besides, women are complicated. I find it much easier to approach a guy than a girl.
     
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    That sounds like it was an enlightning moment. But repeating what the others have said, it really doesnt change the person you are, just makes it feel a whole lot better inside!!(*hug*)
     
  8. BitterEdge

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    Congrats, while technically I am bisexual, I'm most definitely more attracted to men but can't seem to just tell people I'm gay, wish I could....so congrats again.
     
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    that must be such a good feeling, finally figuring things out (for the moment anyway...) congrats!
     
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    yay for GAY.
    :]] congrats on figureing out who you are :]
     
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    u have alot of curage its taken me 39 yrs and im still not all the way there