Hello: Me and my girlfriend are both on our first and only girlfriend as a lesbian couple. We have gotten into a problem, of our own making. We have been teasing and making jokes for months about who has the better breasts, or, the bigger and firmer breasts for some time. Well, the debate has become more heated in the recent past. We have been fighting about it. Really, we have been fighting, and have used our breasts to fight each other. Does this happen often in lesbian couples, or in the lesbian community, and is there a way out of this problem. Since were the same size, we really cannot say one is better than the other.