Girl I'm into replied "Who's this?" to my text...should I believe her or forget her

I would generally agree but because she's in a relationship, she would have to reject me regardless of whether or not she was interested. It wouldn't be worth it.

And we work together. So we'd have to still see each other and people might hear about what happened...

 

I'm saying that is why I cannot just tell her my feelings as you and the other poster just recently advised me to do.

I want to at least be friends with her.

 

I think I can manage friendship. I'll see her and her family together and it'll help me move on and I'm alright with listening and giving advice to help them fix their relationship. And you know, sometimes you lose interest after really getting to know someone. The majority of people are not soulmates.

 

I ended up acting like nothing happened, never brought up the text and we have not texted since. But we have been getting along really well at work. Her best friends seem to like me. She is flirty at times and still touchy. Last night even, as I was reaching for something above, she approached to pass behind me and went "Mmm" in an overly racy way that suggested she liked what she saw. She put her hand out to touch the side of my waist as she passed. And later that night said with a huge smile that we were going to find me a man.. Lol.

I have no idea what that text was about. Maybe it *was* her bf... But she wasn't just trying to ditch me.