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Gay people: Have you ever been with someone of the opposite sex

Discussion in 'Chit Chat' started by chercheur, Oct 14, 2013.

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Have you ever been with someone of the opposite sex?

  1. I am a gay male and "no"

    32 vote(s)
    37.6%
  2. I am a gay male and "yes"

    25 vote(s)
    29.4%
  3. I am gay female and "no"

    5 vote(s)
    5.9%
  4. I am a gay female and "yes"

    14 vote(s)
    16.5%
  5. I am other gender/sexuality and "no"

    1 vote(s)
    1.2%
  6. I am other gender/sexuality and "yes"

    5 vote(s)
    5.9%
  7. Other

    3 vote(s)
    3.5%
  1. Waffles

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    Yes.

    Those were the most awkward-as-heck months of my life.

    *shudders in corner*
     
  2. redneck

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    Wow I wasn't really expecting those results. Across the board 'yes' is ahead of 'no'.

    I have been with women before myself but I figured I was a minority. Especially since there are so many users on this site that are out at age 15 or less.
     
  3. gravechild

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    Bisexual here, and have only had a few short-term relationships with girls/women. I'm starting to think I'm not very good at this. :icon_redf
     
  4. Hot Pink

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    I've only been with guys so far and I'm a lesbian. Honestly, I would have sex with a guy again if I was horny enough. It's okay and still feels good, just isn't my particular cup of tea. It's like Mello Yello. Sure, I prefer Mountain Dew, but if all they have is Mello Yello, I'll have it. Keep in mind, I still technically only know Mello Yello and have no idea how wonderful Mountain Dew really is.
     
  5. sammy1

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    I picked the option ' other' because I haven't been with anyone yet but I can't ever see myself in a loving relationship with a man...it just wouldn't b fulfilling for either of us
     
  6. DeepCover

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    Nope, but I haven't been with anyone of the same sex either...
     
  7. BMC77

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    Never had any sort of physical relationship with a female.

    But then I've never had any sort of physical relationship with a male, either. For that matter, I'm a loser whose never even had a date. Sigh...
     
  8. blueberrymuffin

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    No, the thought of it grosses me out. I've been in real peril of it though. This girl on my floor had kept coming to my place, then eventually invited me over to get high. Well, i found her crawling over me trying to get my pants off...I learned to just get it out there early. Worse yet, her dad had come in to pick her up for thanksgiving 5 minutes later. He would've caught us going at it. Instead he just sat down and started lighting up too...
     
  9. brock900

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    I never had a girlfriend
     
  10. Tim

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    No, and I never intend to be.
     
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    One girlfriend, let's never go back to that... I'm glad I'm gay! lol
     
  12. Lipstick Leuger

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    Yes, I used to date males and married one, having three children with him. He was actually a Trans MTF, pre-opt. (orientation lesbian)I did sometimes enjoy sex, but it was not fufilling and I didn't desire it much. It felt good to get off, but it was a pale immitation to sex with a woman. I am a Lesbain, but probably more in the middle, closer to Bi.

    It's not like I hated sex with males, but it was like eating Tofurkey when you are expecting real turkey.