So I am not really out to all my friends and family but a lot of people sort of know. Anyway. So I really want a romantic relationship with a man but I don't know how to find gay guys who what to do who what goes where... So any advice would be very helpful!
Well you could always stop looking for a guy who knows what he's doing and instead look for someone you actually care about. That way it doesn't matter if neither of you know 'what goes where' because you will be exploring things together...getting to understand what you both like and don't like without having to follow some set of instructions dished out by some guy.
About the only place you'll be able to find somebody is at school, or perhaps a local teen LGBTQ place if there is one nearby. Lex