I felt like I was making really good progress coming out, but all the sudden I feel completely frozen to take the next steps and a powerful feeling of shame. I can't seem to take any next steps and in fact feel like I am withdrawing a little. Any tips? I don't feel like I am 'forcing' it my desire to be with a man is stronger than ever and I have moments when I embrace it I feel so happy but then when I try to move.. FRIGHT!!