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Found pics of someone you know

Discussion in 'General Support and Advice' started by Ballplayer, Mar 13, 2020.

  1. Ballplayer

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    If you happened to find naughty/nude pics of someone you know or are 99% sure it's them would you tell them you saw them?

    Would you ask if it was them or say something like "do you put pics on x"?
     
  2. Ashley01

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    I wouldn't. I wouldn't want to make them uncomfortable. I have done stupid things on a whim. Maybe they did, too. I wouldn't hold it over their head. Maybe it was just a stupid decision he/she made that he/she now regrets.
     
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    I don't think I would bring it up.
     
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    I wouldn't say anything for the reasons @Ashley01 mentioned. It's possible that they might not even want others to know or have knowledge of it.

    Similarly, if say a friend or somebody I know would approach me about a situation such as this and feels guilt or bad about it, and if I'd seen the picture beforehand, I still wouldn't say something. I would want them to continue feeling comfortable and at ease, and not worrying whether others have come to know about it as well.
     
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    On the other hand, they might not even know there is a picture of them. Maybe it was posted without their knowledge and that is an issue in itself.