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Forever Alone

Discussion in 'Chit Chat' started by lovetoomuch, Dec 22, 2015.

  1. Psaurus918

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    Is it too late for me to join to forever alone party? :-(
     
  2. PokeGleek

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    I feel the same way. I sometimes feel like I don't look good enough for someone. On the bright side, I'm only 17 so I've still got a long way to go in life. Forever alone club, haha!
     
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    Yeah, unfortunately I've already resigned myself to the fact that this is my future. Not going to lie, the thought that I'll go through life being an afterthought to everybody except my immediate family is pretty scary and depressing. =/
     
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    I do sometimes think that it's very possible for me to end up alone and that very thought frightens me. :icon_redf I certainly hope I'll meet someone soon.
     
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    Despite the fact that I'm in a committed relationship, and that I KNOW I have some very close lifelong friends, I live in a perpetual state of fear that I'm going to die old, alone, and hated.
     
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    I've given up but your still Young so you have plenty of time
     
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    Being alone...don't worry. You'll find someone eventually. Actually, no- they'll find YOU! :slight_smile:
     
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    Yeah, I feel like i'll always be alone sometimes but I have a long life to live so who knows, anything can happen.
     
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    It doesn't bother me. Be like water and go with the flow.
     
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    It used to worry me when I wasn't out and knew few other LGBT people, I haven't worried about it since.
     
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    Sometimes I think this is what will happen to me, but I want to remain positive that I find thee one someday.
     
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    Yes, ending up alone is probably my biggest fear. If I knew that I would never get married and have kids, I'd rather just die now because it would be pointless for me to keep living.
     
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    I don't know... Ending up alone is pretty scary for me, but being with someone for the rest of my life is scary, too, and I'm not sure which scares me more. On one hand, I'm alone and without another person to be close to, but I also have friends that I love and support me. On the other hand, I have someone in my life that I would ideally love, but I'd probably be expected to share very intimate details about myself and even be trusted with their own intimate details, which scares me to no end. So yes, I'm afraid of ending up alone, but I'm also afraid of ending up with someone. I hope that made sense.
     
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    You're not alone in this! Definitely my biggest fear. 27 and never been in any relationship. :icon_redf definitely terrified of real intimacy and depending on someone. Never had a problem letting someone depend on me, but openly depending on someone else that fully just makes me cringe...but the idea of being alone is equally terrifying...c'est la vie :rolle:
     
  15. Atreyo

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    As someone who is introverted, somewhat shy, pretty picky, socially awkward, and suffered from extremely low self esteem before, I can tell you that I will find one to spend my life with.

    The reason is simple, I remain optimistic and I am determined. Any faults I see within myself, I work to uproot. Sometimes, i'm even willing to go outside my comfort zone, if need be. If you guys want to find someone, then do things to make that happen. Believe me, it can take a long time, but it'll happen.

    But to wallow in self pity and self condemnation is nothing but self sabotage. Don't take part in it. I've also noticed that some of you are still young, so you have PLENTY of time; don't rush it. I'm going to be 30 years old next month, only had a short lived relationship, and I know things will be good with me.
     
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