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Feeling old, lonely and like my life is basically over

Discussion in 'LGBT Later in Life' started by Steve65, Jul 14, 2019.

  1. Evgeny

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    Since I've traveled most of my life I have a mobile perspective. I would like to sail to the following two destinations to complete my map. I learned how to sail in San Diego and I have day tripped New Smyrna Beach's coast so I have two of the southern corners of the U.S. accomplished. Winter Harbor Maine would be my next port I'd like to sail to. After that I want to do what I consider the journey of a life time. That is transit the Panama Canal and coast cruise to Noah Bay Washington. Then I could say I have been to the four corners of the country I so proudly defended for 22 years. I'd like to make it happen before age 65 but I might be able to push it further if I had to (health permitting of course) That's my Idea of retirement.
     
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  2. Steve65

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    Wow, sounds great!!
     
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    I’ve just read the all the messages between Evgeny and Steve, the respect, advice given was so helpful to me, and I could also see their friendship develop.
    This why I read and return to EC each day, To read these wonderful stories of support between the members.helps me through my day.
    Adz
     
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    Evengy,
    Now that you came out to your mom are you feeling better? Do you have a new energy, a bit of a different perspective? I hope so!

    Dean
     
  5. Steve65

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    Hi adz....I really like posting here, the guys are really great! Glad you enjoyed reading. Where are you from?
     
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    Hi Steve,
    Thank you for Liking my post and replying.
    I’m from Sydney .
    I’m very closeted gay man who also happens to be married.
    I return here most days so that I can be amongst friends.
    I don’t often post, because being so far in the closet, I don’t feel I have the life experience tp post.
    Adz
     
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  7. Steve65

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    True, you may not have the "life experience to post", but this seems to be a good place to feel like a part of the community.
     
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    So true Steve, being a member of this forum makes me feel like I am part of our community.
    All the contributors are so helpful and kind. Everyone seems to care for each other, a genuine empathy for each of us
     
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