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Facial hair or None

Discussion in 'Chit Chat' started by Mrcake, Mar 25, 2013.

  1. Mrcake

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    Do you think facial hair is sexy? Do you think a man should be cleanly shaved or have a messy 5 o clock shadow look? The reason why I say this is because I am new to the scene and am looking to attract some people. I currently am wearing light facial hair.
     
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    Clean shaven is good, I kissed a Guy with stubble in a Gay Bar once & it felt strange :slight_smile:
     
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    Clean shaven for me, definitely. As my friends' kid says: "I don't like your 'points'" :grin:
     
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    I like myself clean shaven but I find guys who've "forgotten to shave this morning" unusually sexy.
     
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    It depends on the person and what type of look one wants to project, if any. I like being clean shaven (though it's not like that's hard for me in the first place) 'cause I think it suits me best, in general, and I generally like guys clean shaven as well. But for people who're older, I kinda like them having some light stubble.
     
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    I do prefer guys who are clean shaven
     
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    To me it doesn't really matter. I like when my boyfriend has a little ######. About the only thing I am unattracted to are full out beards (or moustaches... :confused:)
     
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    Depends on what the guy looks like, light stubble can be sexy.
     
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    Depends on the person but a little stubble/goatee/beard can be very nice. Generally I'm leaning more towards bearded guys, maybe because I wish I could grow one myself, lol!
     
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    For me either clean shaven or facial hair is fine but with facial hair I'd prefer it be maintained/neat even if they have a lumberjack beard. My favorite style of facial hair is that light stubble look or nicely maintained gentleman beard.
     
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    I find full beards incredibly attractive.

    However I lean towards thinking that facial hair should be kept as the grower of the facial hair is most comfortable. Clean shaved, bearded, goatee, that strange little line of hair that follows the jaw line ... it's all good if the person wearing it enjoys their look.
     
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    You aren't a doll - you don't need to "make yourself up" to "attract" people. Gay/bi guys also aren't all the same; you won't please everyone by picking just one look. So pick one that feels good on you. I guarantee you you'll attract infinitely more people by picking a look you feel confident in and having that shine, rather than picking a look that doesn't suit you just because you think other people find it "more attractive".

    That said, I enjoy both clean-shaven and light ######. Nothing beyond that for me though.
     
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    Doesn't matter to me as long as it isn't a full beard/mustache. Clean shaven is ideal, but I really don't care. I myself always have a very small amount of stubble at the very least.
     
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    I'd say it depends on the guy. In general I don't like full beards, but on some guys they're really hot.
     
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    If you like it, keep it, you'll attract someone who likes them as well. If you don't like it, don't keep it. Ahhh, life can be so wonderfully simple sometimes! :slight_smile:
    It might sound cliche, but "Just be yourself" is the best way to go!
     
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    In general, people who want to look attractive do things to themselves that they find attractive in others. So I keep my hair relatively short, shave my face every time I shower, and trim my fingernails regularly. I find those features attractive on others, and it makes me feel better about my own appearance.
     
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    I like clean shaven or a 5 o'clock shadow. Not big on beards
     
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    I agree with the fact that you should just be yourself and everyone likes different things, so regardless of what you do, there will be tons of people who find you attractive.

    I personally love beards and moustaches.
     
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    I don't have a special preference, there are some guys with more rough looks who look better with stuble or a beard and others that are more baby face that look better freshly shaved. It totally depends on the person's features, I would go for any of the two.
     
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    Depends on the facial hair, but most of the time facial hair FTW.