I'm 41, 6'0 330 lbs so yes I'm fat. I'm an emotional eater and some of that probably comes from being closeted, I'm also prediabetic. So likely that is the cause of my Erectile Dysfunction. I'll be masterbating trying to find the right porn video and I'll end up losing it and finishing at half strength. Doesn't happen all the time. I guess this will probably get better when I get healthy (lose weight bring down blood sugar). But are most guys my age understanding. I guess fat guys would understand more. Anyone have any experience?
You are on the right track with losing some weight and getting healthy. Sooo. I'm not super skinny and trim. But, I exercise lots. Something everyday. I've never had an issue with ED at 60 now. I think it's the exercise. I encourage you to try getting exercise in combination with trying to eliminate some of the food consumption. Just a little bit every day matters and it should be something fun!