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Does porn do it for you?

Discussion in 'Chit Chat' started by PandaFlop, Feb 16, 2015.

  1. PandaFlop

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    So, when I watch porn, gay porn, it doesn't turn me on or when it does just kinda. But when I think about the deed without porn, it turns me on. Does this happen to anyone else?
     
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    I'm kind of the same. I don't know why but Gay Porn just doesn't arouse me that much. Imagining myself doing the acts displayed in gay porn turns me on but watching it hardly does anything for me...
     
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    It turns me on sometimes...
     
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    Porn just turns me off and grosses me out, actually.
     
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    Same here. Most porn is too harsh and all over the place. That's why I wish they would make more rated X movies; because those seem more real. One with romance, real life situations, and naked bodies! :grin:
     
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    sometimes it can turn me on .
     
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    While I was trying to discover my sexuality, if I had one, I watched porn, but could never get anything out of it. I had a short(really short) period when I was driven to look at nude pictures, and it was tough to stop, but I still never gotten aroused, and the attraction didn't last that long, and even then it wasn't sexual attraction, it was purely aesthetic. I enjoyed how people looked nude but more for the artistic value not really sexually. So, no. Porn doesn't do it for me, and neither do nudes, but I can and do still enjoy the artsiness of naked pics, as long as the photos aren't sexual, because if they're sexual, then, I just get grossed out.

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    I can relate.
     
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    I appreciate it at times
     
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    Depends on the type. Amateur porn is the only one I watch because it's way more satisfying. It's "real sex", not the methodical and mechanical fantasy loaded sex of porn companies. These guys have no connection or chemistry, rarely.
    I have a great imagination so I can use that during a "break" and plus I prefer more eroticism and foreplay than plain unrealistic fucking.
     
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    I guess, for me the main problem with the most of porn it's that or professionally mechanical or amateurish. I mean in the quality erotic movies, before it comes to sex, there is some story that provides some kind of background and build-up to the actual scene. So when this is done well, the sex that happens can be turning-on. If this is just scene after scene of sex or 1 minute of chit-chat, then sex. This seems so boring and unappealing for me
     
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    Porn has never done it for me so I don't watch it.

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    I'd rather watch a pan of water boil dry.
     
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    I mean....I don't have much else.
     
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    yes but only a small percent of porn is able to actually do anything for me
     
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    It depends. The problem is I'm too visual so imagination doesn't help, but a lot of porn is kind of a turn-off...
     
  16. It's not very interesting.
     
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    Rarely, though I'm one to find porn boring.
     
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    No, not really.

    I find most of it, especially male-female, to just be mishandled and misogynistic. It looks so uncomfortable and that shrieking-screaming sound women are making, it sounds absolutely unappealing. I understand why it's there, to associate dominance into sexuality (which is another topic for another day), but it kills any potential to be aroused. That said, though, there is decent, loving heterosexual pairings out there -- I won't judge an entire area of pornography based on the first few videos, via Google or Bing.

    The idea of watching others have sex, while a little exciting, isn't exactly my cup of tea. Sure, I could watch porn, but it'd be like I watch a documentary. I'm just there, spectating. Every now and then, there's something that may tickle my fancy, but it's rare -- and I chalk that up to my particular taste. I'm more drawn to the tender touching and loving kisses, and, if it happens, the post-climax cuddling and loving session. This is why, if I do bring porn up, I skip a bit into the beginning and go near the end.

    Lesbian porn, despite being targeted to women-loving males (I suppose you could debate the 'loving' part, but you know what I mean), in most cases, tend to do this more than not. Which is funny to me, because of the stereotype that men don't like the idea of foreplay or doing anything after, well, ejaculating.

    I prefer the sensual or romantic aspects to porn, if they're included. The graphic sex parts, while I can understand how somebody gets their rocks off to it, just isn't for me. Well, unless it is me, then it's a different story, LOL!
     
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    Yes, it usually does.
     
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    I watch the kissing and making out scenes and run away
    If i dont i dream nightmares i wish they can do it under the blanket hiding their nudes and showing the rest of their bodies and kissing and candlds around them with low lighting awww thats called sex !
    Not screaming and slaming and spitting i feel like a horror movie no horror movies are better