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Does porn and fantasies indicate sexually orientation?

Discussion in 'Sexual Orientation' started by Emptyclost, Nov 8, 2018.

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  1. Emptyclost

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    Like I found guys attractive but whenever i fantasize about having sex with them or their bodies it ruins my excitement. But I still like them. Im just really confused
     
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    asking for a friend obviously I just spoke in the first person for better delivery:boy:
     
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    A good way to figure this out is to stop watching porn for awhile and figure out where your fantasies take you.

    Porn isn’t a good indicator but fantasy is.
     
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    Hopefully that will help your friend :slight_smile:
     
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    Like @Totesgaybrah said there is a difference between porn and fantasy. Also for clarification some people just get turned on by seeing someone have sex - magazine, movie, irl. It doesn't determine orientation. There are also people who are exhibitionist and/or voyeur meaning they get easily aroused watching sexual acts or being watched. Both do not determine orientation.
     
    #5 weary, Nov 10, 2018
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    No, strictly speaking porn != sexuality, but like, I know of very few people who watch porn of things that they aren't into.
     
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