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Do you think your crush secretly knows you're into them

Discussion in 'Chit Chat' started by woahthatsboring, Mar 17, 2015.

  1. Alder

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    It's not a HUGE crush this time around but I do like her and she probably knows; I never try to act obvious and I never actually do anything-but I think sometimes my occasional nervousness and how I'm pretty flustered around her sometimes gives it away.
     
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    Maybe. She's my ex, before she moved on to some guy, and we are best friends too. I told her I needed time before we could be the same, and now we're the same - except I love her a little too much.
     
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    My crush knows that I 'admire' her. But I'm not sure if she realises I actually fancy her... :icon_redf :love:
     
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    My crush knows this for a fact
     
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    Don't have a crush but at my old school a lot of guys would check me out. So I know they had a crush on me.
     
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    I think she does. With all the eye contact exchanges, that's all we do..I don't get this. Is she or is she not? She did mention that she had a boyfriend (they are close friends now) and that she had been seeing some guy...maybe she's bi, but I feel like that's just wishful thinking. Anyway, I've been avoiding her lately, shit is confusing..hate this.
     
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    I don't have a crush right now :icon_ sad:

    I'm the same and usually I'll openly flirt with someone I'm interested in.. so it can't be hard for someone to tell anyway.
     
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    Nope. I'm extremely good at hiding my feelings, probably to my detriment since I can't read other people's social cues either so I have no idea if he reciprocates my feelings :T
     
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    He sits next to me one of my classes so I stare often.

    Awkward eye contact is frequent.
     
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    Well... He is not my current crush but my childhood crush which I realized couple of years back when I saw him again.

    Even back in that day I was not too touch feely kid however all my memories involving him includes some kind of physical contact and I acted very harsh to him, you know those kid behavior where you diss the boy/girl you liked... somehow we stayed friend even thru that bickering, fighting and arguments. I am even starting to think he might be reason for my obsession with blonde guys. I remember hanging with him very often and having that wrestling match which I lie down under him a bit longer... okay okay very long so that he asked if somethings wrong.

    Now whenever I saw him; alone or with his daughter he has that knowing look and smirk on his face. It is both annoying and hot. He acts mostly annoyed and avoid looking at my direction when with his wife.

    So I am a bit confused about whole thing.
     
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    Haha that reminds me of myself! I make awkward eye contact with my crush ALL THE TIME!

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    Sorry to hear about that? Maybe she's bisexual, if she had a boyfriend that is tricky. Hopefully you work something out :slight_smile:

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    If he's married I would leave it alone-- it's never worth it to hurt others plus I'm sure there are other lovely guys out there :wink: I'm also the same with my crush. It's very kiddish but I try the "I don't care" and "You suck" attitude towards her but she's still remains nice even after, like you said about you're old crush.
     
  13. I think I'm fortunate that I don't have any crushes. Holy sheet, they were all physically/emotionally painful and they're all very awkward to remember.
     
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    At first I don't think he ever did, but after this drunk weekend he might at least suspect a bit.
     
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    It's not remotely a secret, so yes. :stuck_out_tongue_closed_eyes:
     
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    my opinion exactly! but sadly i have a crush on this girl and i feel like im on a runaway emotion rollercoster that is headed for a brick wall. i hate it. sad thing is she asked me out about two years ago and i said no cz i was scared. then a year ago i confessed that i actually liked her but was afraid (genius -_-) so it has been so awkward ever since:bang:

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    oh forgot to answer the question. Does she know? yes, unfortunately
     
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    Which one? :lol:

    I have three... #1 may suspect it, he kind of hints at things... But I think we're both too shy to start something. #2 has no idea. #3 probably doesn't even know I exist... Well, that's not true. She has said "hi" to me a few times.
     
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    Maybe you should talk to her shout it! If there was feelings before, there might be feelings now :slight_smile:
     
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    im too much of a whimp to even greet her lol and i feel as though i would have been for nothing cz she is leaving next year:dry:
     
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    If mine doesn't know, they are surely the stupidest person on Earth. (However, having met them, I would not be surprised :wink: )