I get what you're saying. I want to be a musician as well. I already write songs about sexuality so I think I would make it obvious. I like when performers come out because it breaks stereotypes and encourages their fans who are also in the closet. But I think you should do it if you're confident and ready to do it for yourself. Don't worry if people ride off your sexuality or see you as "a queer person" instead of "a musician". There's people like that everywhere
Why don't we ask the expert here? Morrisey! Once you are out there, as a public person, they are going to ask, face it. Yes, it's up to you what you'll say. Yes, you have a right to privacy. And no, it doesn't have to be only about you... If you come out, you might do it for yourself AND for others who are hidding. That being said, nobody should be forced to become a "social justice warrior" if he or she is not ready for such a challenge. On the other hand, you can always use the extra publicity... Again... We should ask Morrisey about it. He is the expert here.
Perhaps it is different with sexuality and gender. Trans people shouldn't have to come out, as not all of us want our past to be known anyway. There is a certain artist I know of who is trans woman. She is constantly being misgendered. Not everyone can deal with that.
I'm not sure if there will ever be any questions. I'm very straight looking and I play a very straight looking instrument. I'm not sure I'll ever be well known enough to be in the public eye anyways.
It should be completely up to the performer. They should only come out when they feel comfortable doing and make the decision by themselves. Not even a person with such powerful influence should be forced to do something they aren't ready to do.
You are the first ukelele player I've had the pleasure to meet... You seem very determined... Am I right? I'm not sure why are you asking us. Ach, you never know how famous/rich you can get until you try it. You don't need to sell your soul to Sony or any other major to become someone hot, even a legend : The Sisters of Mercy are a good example. You never know...
I didn't choose my instrument. My instrument chose me. It's not my fault my instrument is played by straight and conservative people instead of fabulous queers.