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Do you see yourself having kids one day?

Discussion in 'Chit Chat' started by Kodo, Mar 5, 2016.

  1. FootballFan101

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    Yes, I do. We would use a donor, I guess. Having kids is something I would ideally do pretty young, but I want to go to grad school and I don't know how that is possible mathematically. Also I don't have a girlfriend. So this is purely...speculative.
     
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    At this stage, I don't want kids. I don't like how everything revolves around your kids, and I don't like leaving whatever I'm doing to tend to a child. My sister and brother-in-law moved back in with our parents, and they have a 5-year old daughter. She gets on my nerves and as a result, I'm very impatient with her, often coming across as rude. Thing is, I don't like being "bound" by something, and kids can be very demanding, be it for attention or something they want. I don't like that one bit. Besides, I'm much too selfish regarding my time and movements. If I want to go somewhere, I don't want to have to include a child. I want to be free to do things without needing to worry about a young person. I don't think I'm parent material at all so no, I don't see myself having kids, or marrying someone with (young) kids. If the kids are at an independent age (Old enough to work and fend for themselves) then it's okay to a degree

    ETA: And I don't see myself ever getting or being pregnant.
     
    #43 Ruby Dragon, Mar 6, 2016
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