Really interested in this one: If a person identifies as an exclusive top/primarily top would they use a sex toy, why and which ones. After all most are designed for "catching"? I'm a top and before I came "Out", was sold my first Aneros prostate massager at a very "straight" adult sex exhibition. I've since gotten myself a cock ring, as well as some good quality anal beads. But I would think as a "Top" things like Dildos and Butt Plugs are a bit "over the top". What are your thoughts? Oh, and by the way, whats the deal with those hard/glass type dildos I see in porn? Is it a macho kind of thing as seeing most prefer more flexible(realistic) versions?
