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Do gay guys like lesbian porn the way lesbians like gay porn?

Discussion in 'Sexual Orientation' started by 10 5 gang, Apr 9, 2020.

  1. 10 5 gang

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    Are there any gay men that like lesbian porn? I ask because I get off to it and I am extremely confused
     
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    Porn in itself is useless to me for the most part due to liking physical connection sexually.

    Not sure what it would matter what you like to look at verse who you like in bed with you are totally two different things.
    There is no one way to be who you are. This is just part of who you are.

    Part of the problem is labels are limited and we are all pretty unique.
     
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    So Then I am gay. It's just a weird that I get off to lesbian porn
     
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    I'm a gay man and find lesbian porn very erotic especially scenes that depict first time experiences.
     
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    I do not think being gay would stop several men from watching Lesbian porn.

    I think you are the best you no matter what you do.
     
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    That's crazy I thought I was the only one. Does it turn you on and you get aroused to it?sorry for the intrusive question I'm only trying to figure out out
     
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    This is one of the reasons that porn isn't a reliable indicator of sexual orientation. Porn is engineered, shot and edited to produce a specific effect: sexual arousal. It isn't representative of real life, and so, particularly for folks with a fairly high sex drive or younger folks, *many* types of porn can be arousing. This isn't to say that porn depicting your preferred orientation won't likely generate a strong or the strongest response, just that the response can be variable which is why we don't recommend it as a means of determining orientatin.

    That said, there are certainly folks who find porn that is the opposite of their sexual orientation to be at best utterly unexciting, and at worse, actually disgusting and nauseating.
     
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    Yes I've noticed in the boards purple font trust porn and neither do I or else I wouldn't even be questioning. But is there another way to test sexuality? And it's true gay men love lesbian porn?
     
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    Yes, it turns me on but I typically don't climax to it. I would then watch gay porn to get off.
     
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    I've always found it boring, even when I thought I was straight. Not the hot naked girls part, that's cool. It's more the way the videos are made. Lesbian porn always seems so sterile and bland to me, it just doesn't have the passion of straight and gay porn.
     
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    Not this one and honestly, it makes no sense to me. I don't have any interest in women sexually so I can't see why I would watch lesbian porn. In fact, I've never even watched straight porn either and have no interest in doing that either.

    If you like it, go for it but it isn't for me.
     
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    That's because many of the women involved are straight (or straight leaning), and its consumed mostly by straight men (and some straight women).

    Since there are some gay men commenting who admit to enjoying it, could there be more, but due to fear of judgment keep quiet? Plenty play up the whole anti-vagina and anti-women attitude to reinforce their gayness, after all
     
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    The only way to know is to see how it works in practice for you. See, I never had the signs of being gay or trans... But the way it works in practice speaks for itself.
     
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    what do you mean you never had gay fantasies before or trans fantasies?
     
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    Not really. With being bi, I find it hard to believe that I missed the signs, it’s not like I’m heteroflexible, I’m rather very in the middle of the scale or even closer to the gay end. Biologically speaking. All I felt was physical arousal when being next to other girls, never fantasised about it. Until I met this girl in college. That began a whole series of falling in love with women. And opened the door, in a way, to fantasise about it. Maybe I’m just a person who doesn’t imagine or interpret too much, because with being trans it was a similar story, but I won’t go into that in detail for the sake of simplicity.
     
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    When I was younger before I came out to myself, I loved lesbian porn. I didn’t enjoy any other porn and I particularly found straight porn boring and still do.
    I think I enjoyed the lesbian porn because it was such a taboo subject while I was in my teens. Now as an older gay man I don’t enjoy lesbian porn at all .this could be that I don’t find the vagina attractive?. After I discovered gay porn there was no turning back.
     
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    Lesbian here. Haha, and I'm interested in where you got your info? I have legit never wanted to watch gay porn or porn with males in general. Lol. Just sayin.