Dealbreakers

Drug use
Not being considerate of me if she smokes. With my asthma, it could quite literally kill me.
Not wanting kids. I have to have kids...she's going to have to want them, too.
Poor personal hygiene
Lying
Someone who can't handle my issues...I come with some baggage. I am working in it all, but for now, she's going to have to be able to handle my mood swings.
Hates pets-especially cats



Huh...I thought this would be hard...lol

 

Bigotry, maybe cheating, and stupid things

 

Drug abuse,any kind of abuse,lack of self-control and compassion (those two made me put an end to my last relationship), too much jelousy are all on my list of dealbreakers.

 

bigotry + being controlling are literally my only dealbreakers

 

Some of these Dealbreakers to me wouldn't even get a 2nd look in, Smokers, tattoos, hygiene,

way down the list could be snorers.

 

violation of trust and keeping significant issues a secret. A friend's wife ran up over $40K in credit card debt and exchanged explicit emails with a former boyfriend who was recently released from prison for attempted murder. He had no choice but to pay the debt because his name was also on the cards and he owns a successful business. Now they have their own cards and he uses professionals to keeps close tabs on her. He no longer cares who she sees or what she does with them, he just doesn't want to be kept in the dark. He stays with her because they have young kids but has as little to do with her as possible. They're like 2 strangers living under the same roof.

 

Being allergic to shellfish. :'(

 

i dont date peasants

ew​

can u not​

no time 4 u​

 

I'm allergic to shellfish.

 

drug use, smoking, or excessive alcohol consumption
financial irresponsibility
no interest in being physically active
being very religious
racism (though someone who is racist likely would not want to date me)
lack of intellectual curiosity
being manipulative and controlling
dishonesty

 

- doesn't like children or pets (as I want both to be a part of my future)
- smoking
- cheating (as I would be open to a threesome, polyamory, etc)
- lying/pathological lying
- abuse
- hard drugs (marijuana is fine, but heroin and cocaine aren't)
- manipulative
- controlling (emotionally or physically)
- apathy
- clingy behavior
- intolerance
- objectification
- ignoring boundaries
- unhealthy level of jealousy/insecurity
- not interested in learning
- spends all their time indoors
- makes poor financial decisions

 

smoking cigarettes in the friggin' house (i don't mind it too much, but if they smoke too much, i'll make em stahppp)
drug use
abuse, violence, and excessive need to control things
judgmental behavior
no communication
too many tattoos
drinks WAY too much ( a few beers or a glass of wine is fine, but not getting drunk every night )
cheating
pressuring me to do something i don't feel up to. for example, skydiving, kiss my ass. im scared of heights anyway

 

I don't think I could ever date someone who smokes, has kids, or is devoutly religious.

 

Smoking/drugs/violence/cheating/lack of ambition/judgmental/lying

 

I draw the line at non-human DNA.

 

No interest in physical fitness/health
Obesity (might catch flak for this but it is what it is)
Watches a lot of TV
Afraid of lots of things
Has a problem with me doing potentially dangerous things (climbing, bc skiing, etc)
Doesn't like cold weather
Not adventurous
Doesn't want to travel outside the USA
Overly emotional
Wants to have kids in the very near future (<10 years from now)

...lol, that ended up being longer than I thought ... but hey at least I'm realistic.

 

I'm also half-tempted to make "having dealbreakers" as one of my dealbreakers, actually.