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Confused About Sexual Orientation.

Discussion in 'Sexual Orientation' started by FriendOfAquaman, Jan 1, 2017.

  1. FriendOfAquaman

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    Hello,I'm going to keep this short and tidy,as I am awful at forum posting.

    I've considered myself as Bisexual for quite some time now,but I've been questioning myself, physically I find females more attractive,but I find both females and males mentally (is that the word?) or physiologically attractive.
    So could anyone tell me if I should still consider myself Bi or something else.
    Thanks :help:
     
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    Sexuality is very fluidic and doesn't always have a set preference. I believe that one is able to follow a certain path without any set labels, but by definition, if you are attracted to both sexes then that most likely means that you're bi, no matter if you feel 75% to 25% or 50% to 50%. You are able to identify as whatever you fell comfortable with. :slight_smile: I hope this helped, 'cause I know I'm sometimes confusing when I write in forums, too. :slight_smile:
     
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    Thanks,that actually helped a lot,and you ween't confusing, don't worry.
    If it isn't to much to ask,I made a post about a separate confusion I have, in the forum about Sexual Identity, and no one has replied,could you check it out as well?
    -Thanks
     
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    Hey FriendOfAquaman,

    Only you can actually know your own sexuality.

    Some good indicators are who you fantasize about. Can you imagine yourself being romantically involved with a woman? With a man? With both? When you masturbate (without using pornography), do you fantasize about women? About men? About both?

    If you are interested there are a couple of good videos on YouTube that address bisexuality which you may want to check out:

    Are You Bisexual - Quiz

    How to Tell if You're Bisexual - Is Bisexuality a Choice?

    Just some thoughts.:slight_smile:
     
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    I've done a lot of those quiz's before,and it's always gotten me the "result" of Bisexuality, and I have fantasized with both women and men (usually fictional characters from books thou)
     
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    Hey

    The links I posted are more discussions than 'quizzes.' You may want to check them out.

    But your description would be an indicator of bisexuality. However, you can choose to label your sexuality however you want to - or not label your sexuality at all.:slight_smile:
     
  7. FriendOfAquaman

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    I've labeled myself as Bi for some time,so I'm going to stick with that,but thanks for your help,I'm glad I joined this website!