Coming out to my Twin Brother Soon.

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That would be a good way of telling him. Yesterday was not the day to come out to him. It was Greek Orthodox Easter. His kids and girlfriend were in the same room. Part of my discussion with him, I want to tell him that he and his ex wife can decide how to tell the kids. He is not a bad person at all. He is not a racist or anything like that or ultra religious. I thinks it is more of ignorant on his part and hopefully it will stop.

I am leaning on coming out to him by letter. I still am deciding.

 

Okay I think I finally came up with a plan for coming out to my brother. I wanted to tell him face to face but I will not see him for a couple of weeks and I can not hold on to this anymore. I plan to call him in a couple of days then tell him to check his email. Then I am going to send him this email and ask for him to call me back.

Dear G,

There has been something that I have wanted to tell you for a while however the last few times I have seen you it’s been at family gatherings or the kids have been around. Ideally I would have liked to tell you this in person and alone. However I can not hold on to this any longer. What I want to tell you is that I am gay.

This is something that I have struggled with for many years and finally came to terms with my sexuality within the past year or so. I thought for long time that if I met the right woman I would fall in love marry etc. However I know that this is not for me. Now that I have accepted that I am gay, I feel a lot happier. I am very optimistic about my future and know that I will not be alone the rest of my life. I have told mom, dad and E (sister) and they have been very supportive. I hope this news does not change our relationship. I am the same person as before.

Give me a call when you are ready so we can discuss this further.

Love,

Ed

What do you all think?

 

Thanks guys. I am going to call him within the next day or so. I will let you know what happens.

 

I came out to him today. I put a thread in the coming out section