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Coming out as Lesbian

Discussion in 'Coming Out Advice' started by HasMods, Apr 26, 2021.

  1. HasMods

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    I’ve really come to realize over the past couple months that i’m lesbian. I think i realized this because whenever i imagine what my future is like or what a long time partner would be, i can only ever imagine them being a woman. Recently i came out as lesbian to one of my great friends who over the past year has been super supportive, and they were really supportive of me. It’s really been a wild past year, and despite how much further i have to go it makes me really happy inside to know that i’m finally finding my true self.
     
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    Congratulations. It is a great feeling when we realize who we really are isn't it? I am so glad that you have a supportive friend, that really helps.
     
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    HasMods.....I am really happy for you! ***Happy*** ***Happy*** ***Happy*** ***Happy*** ! :old_smile: :old_smile: :old_smile:
    .....David :gay_pride_flag:
     
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    Congratulations! :slight_smile:

    Pleased that it went well.
     
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    I’d like to say it takes courage to accept who you are and decide to share that with people close to you. You’ve done amazing and should be proud!
     
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    I am not there yet, but I too have an amazingly supportive straight friend, and I know she would be fine with whatever I am.

    Good friends are rare, treasure them.

    Very Happy for you too :grinning:
     
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    Fabulous! Sounds like you have an exciting time ahead. It’s a great relief to A know who you really are, and B tell someone else about it! :hearts: