Hi all. I have been trying to wrap my head around of I am really gay or not (answers at the end). For me, I have noticed that I fantasize about a guy being there during sex, I can remember guys from vacation to Miami and not much about the women there, and all of my fantasies are about men. I can see myself going to a gay bar, going on a date, concerts, and enjoying/loving the intamacy. After much self acceptance,, Empty Closets, I have accepted... again, I am gay.
Its a great feeling to embrace the gay you. To put those doubts and fears behind you and admit that you prefer men as sexual and emotional partners. Congrats again.
@Dannytheshining It’s great that you accept your sexuality! Congrats! Now, the tough question. Where do you see your life going with this acknowledgement?
Congratulations on coming out! The first step (admitting it to yourself) is often the hardest--and most rewarding, Through it, we open doorways to multiple possibilities of who else we tell, where we want to go, and who we want to traverse life's journeys with.
Congratulations @Dannytheshining ! Like BiGemini said, admitting that to yourself and coming to terms with it is hard (was for me at least). Once you're honest with yourself and have come to accept yourself, you end up growing as a person. So congratulations again on that growth!
